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Why good houseguests don't actually 'make themselves at home'

Why good houseguests don't actually 'make themselves at home'

Summary

The article discusses tips on being a considerate houseguest. Etiquette expert Elaine Swann suggests that guests should respect their host's space and plan their visit thoughtfully. Swann offers advice on how to communicate and behave to ensure a pleasant stay.

Key Facts

  • Etiquette expert Elaine Swann says being a good houseguest means respecting your host's space.
  • Swann recommends asking for permission to stay with someone only if you would feel comfortable hosting them in return.
  • Guests should give their host at least three weeks' notice before visiting.
  • A visit should ideally last four days and three nights unless it's for a special occasion.
  • Guests should communicate their plans and any specific needs with their host in advance.
  • When a host says "make yourself at home," guests should still be respectful and not overstep boundaries.
  • Guests should offer to help with chores like doing the dishes or taking out the trash.

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