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Mom Shares the Painful Truth About Getting 'Too Attached' to Foster Kids

Mom Shares the Painful Truth About Getting 'Too Attached' to Foster Kids

Summary

A foster mother from Nashville, Kate Rapier, explained that getting emotionally attached to foster children is important and helpful, not something to avoid. She says children in foster care need consistent love and care to feel safe and grow well, even if the relationship may not last forever.

Key Facts

  • Kate Rapier is a 43-year-old single foster and adoptive mother from Nashville.
  • Many people think it’s better not to get “too attached” to foster children because it can be painful.
  • Rapier argues that attachment is actually what children in foster care need most.
  • Children in foster care often have experienced trauma and need stable, loving relationships.
  • Research shows secure attachments help children with emotions, relationships, and future wellbeing.
  • Rapier has fostered and adopted two children, learning to love fully even with an uncertain outcome.
  • Supporting foster children can include small acts like donating clothes, babysitting, or mentoring.
  • Rapier encourages more community involvement beyond just becoming foster parents.
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