'I'd be put off if he asked to split it': Who should pay on a first date?
Summary
People have different opinions about who should pay on a first date. A recent survey shows adults in the UK spend over £111 per month on dating, and many people believe the person who asks for the date should pay, while others prefer splitting the bill.Key Facts
- Costs for a first date can be high, with cocktails over £15 and restaurant bills rising.
- UK adults spend more than £111 monthly on dating, over £1,300 yearly, according to Barclays research from 2025.
- Over half of adults under 30 say the cost of dating affects their ability to go on dates.
- Some believe the person who asks for the date should pay, as it shows effort and care.
- Experiences vary: one woman paid when a man’s card failed and felt used; another feels a man paying is a kind gesture.
- Some men try to keep finances separate, like tracking food spent during a buffet meal.
- Clear communication about paying is seen as more important than strict rules.
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