'It's a brutal adjustment': How to cope when your child goes to uni
Summary
Many parents feel anxious and have a hard time adjusting when their child goes to university for the first time. Some join social media groups to share concerns and get advice, but these groups can sometimes increase worry instead of helping.Key Facts
- Parents like Luke experience mixed emotions of pride and sadness when dropping their child at university.
- Many parents join Facebook and WhatsApp groups to connect with others whose children live in the same halls.
- These social media groups often share practical information but can also create extra anxiety by circulating worries about children's wellbeing.
- Some parents use tracking apps and check university social media to see if their child is socializing.
- Students say it is better for parents to communicate directly with them rather than rely on other parents’ groups.
- Psychologists say these groups can be helpful but warn against over-checking or controlling children, which can harm their independence.
- A key part of university life is that students learn to be independent and handle challenges on their own.
- Parents should act only if there are real safety concerns or big changes in behavior.
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