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Woman Invites Family for Thanksgiving Meal, Next Day Sends Them the Bill

Woman Invites Family for Thanksgiving Meal, Next Day Sends Them the Bill

Summary

A man shared online that his sister asked him for $30 after inviting him and his girlfriend to a Thanksgiving meal at her house. There was no mention of a cost when the invitation was made. Online comments criticized this request and said it was rude to ask for money after the event.

Key Facts

  • A man received a $30 payment request from his sister after attending her Thanksgiving gathering.
  • The invitation did not mention any expected payment for attending.
  • The man and his girlfriend brought a $40 cake to contribute to the meal.
  • The dinner included catered food, and family members from abroad attended.
  • The sister requested payment by text message the day after the event.
  • Online responses to the situation were largely negative, calling it improper and unexpected.
  • Etiquette expert Jo Hayes stated that asking guests for money after inviting them is generally inappropriate unless discussed beforehand.

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