Summary
A woman ended her relationship after finding out her boyfriend had misrepresented himself as a father. She learned this after contacting his ex-partner, who shared information that contradicted what he had told her. The boyfriend's behavior raised concerns about honesty and responsibility.
Key Facts
- The woman, 29, was dating a 34-year-old man who has an 8-year-old daughter.
- She was initially unsure about dating someone with a child, but he convinced her he was a devoted father.
- She questioned his parenting after he claimed his daughter did not want a Christmas gift, which she found unusual.
- She contacted the child's mother through TikTok, who shared a different story about his involvement.
- The mother revealed the child was planned, and the boyfriend had been largely absent from the child's life.
- The woman decided to end the relationship after learning this information, even though the boyfriend wanted to explain.
- A therapist noted that the woman’s decision was about self-protection and values, rather than being punitive.