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Her love life was in chaos. The solution? Giving up sex

Her love life was in chaos. The solution? Giving up sex

Summary

Melissa Febos, a writer and professor, decided to take a break from sex and relationships for about a year to focus on herself. She documents this experience in her book, "The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex," where she explores the benefits of celibacy and how it allowed her to redirect her energy towards self-discovery and personal growth.

Key Facts

  • Melissa Febos is the author of "The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex."
  • Febos stopped having sex and engaging in romantic relationships for around a year.
  • Her decision followed a challenging relationship that led her to neglect her well-being.
  • This break helped her have more time and energy for personal growth.
  • Febos realized she often engaged in sex due to internal pressure rather than desire.
  • Initially, she planned for a three-month break, a common timeframe in recovery programs, but extended it to a year.
  • She used this time to reflect on her past relationships and understand her role in them.

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