Summary
An individual discovered their biological grandmother through a DNA test and online genealogy tools, despite their mother's adoption history and initial lack of interest in family origins. The story unfolds as the individual connects with the grandmother and navigates the complexities of family ties. Ultimately, this exploration impacts their relationship with their mother, who was not supportive of this newfound family connection.
Key Facts
- The individual wanted to learn about their family history but faced challenges because their mom was adopted and did not want to know about her biological family.
- The individual's mom took an online DNA test and shared the account with them, asking not to contact any relatives.
- The individual found a close DNA match online, identified as a first cousin, but later discovered to be an uncle.
- The uncle provided the phone number of the individual’s biological grandmother.
- The individual contacted the grandmother, Susan, who was open to communication and shared similarities with their mom's story.
- The grandmother had put their mom up for adoption in the 1970s for personal reasons.
- The individual's mom discovered the contact through the DNA website messages and was upset about it.
- The mom did not initially wish to connect with her biological family despite her child’s interest.
